Create a clear vision.
If you want to succeed, you must create a clear compelling vision, something that you can relate to and resonate with. If it doesn’t speak to your heart, it won’t motivate you to stay on target. Create the highest grandest vision possible, because you can achieve only what you see.
“Winners make a habit of manufacturing their own positive expectations in advance of the event.”
— Brian Tracy
Keep it positive.
Positive thoughts lead to positive actions, and self-affirming statements will help you to achieve your best.
Take control of how you think, how you feel, how you act. Positivity will help you make the choices that lead to accomplishment.
Every time you face mistakes and attempt to move forward in spite of them is a test of character.
There always comes a time when giving up is easier than standing up, when giving in looks more attractive than digging in.
And in those moments, character may be the only thing you have to draw on to keep you going.
After you’ve been knocked down, and you’ve had the will to get back up, the intelligence to plan your comeback, and the courage to take action, know this:
You will experience one of those defining moments.
And it will define you
—as an achiever or a quitter
And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.
For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.
I can do all things through him who strengthens me.
1 CORINTHIANS 10:13
No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it
“All of us make mistakes. The key is to acknowledge them, learn, and move on. The real sin is ignoring mistakes, or worse, seeking to hide them.”
Even when you do feel forced to give up, that doesn’t mean you’ll be walking away with nothing. You’ll have learned greatly from the experience, and you’ll be better equipped to deal with whatever comes next.
“If you can’t fly then run, if you can’t run then walk, if you can’t walk then crawl, but whatever you do you have to keep moving forward.”
–Martin Luther King, Jr.
If something doesn’t work, you have to give it up, but that doesn’t mean you can’t keep moving forward.
“Do what you can, where you are, with what you have.”
Instead of focusing on all the “could have beens,” focus on what you can do right now with the resources available to you.
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The black dot
One day, a professor entered his classroom and asked his students to prepare for a surprise test. They all waited anxiously at their desks for the exam to begin.
The professor handed out the exams with the text facing down, as usual. Once he handed them all out, he asked the students to turn over the papers.
To everyone’s surprise, there were no questions–just a black dot in the center of the paper. The professor, seeing the expression on everyone’s faces, told them the following: “I want you to write about what you see there.” The students, confused, got started on the inexplicable task.
At the end of the class, the professor took all the exams, and started reading each one of them out loud in front of all the students.
All of them, with no exception, defined the black dot, trying to explain its position in the center of the sheet. After all had been read, the classroom silent, the professor started to explain:
“I’m not going to grade you on this, I just wanted to give you something to think about. No one wrote about the white part of the paper. Everyone focused on the black dot – and the same thing happens in our lives. However, we insist on focusing only on the black dot – the health issues that bother us, the lack of money, the complicated relationship with a family member, the disappointment with a friend. The dark spots are very small when compared to everything we have in our lives, but they are the ones that pollute our minds. Take your the eyes away from the black dots in your lives. Enjoy each one of your blessings, each moment that life gives you. Be happy and live a life filled with love!”