ASK LISTEN REMEMBER: The method by which the Q builds Trust with his Group Members. He asks questions, listens to the answer and remembers what he hears. Abbr: ALR.
When you meet people, is your first thought about what they’ll think of you or how you can make them feel more comfortable? At work, do you try to make your coworkers or employees look good, or are you more concerned about making sure that you receive your share of the credit? When you interact w\nith family members, whose best interests do you have in mind? Your answers show where your heart is. To add value to others, you need to start putting others ahead of yourself in your mind and heart. If you can do it there, you will be able to put them first in your actions.
But how can anyone add value to others if he doesn’t know what they care about? Listen to people. Ask them what matters to them. And observe them. If you can discover how people spend their time and money, you’ll know what they value.
Once you know what matters to them, do your best to meet their needs with excellence and generosity. Offer your best with no thought toward what you might receive in return.
Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God.
2 Timothy 1:7
For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.
Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged.
Few things can help an individual more than to place responsibility on him, and to let him know that you trust him.”
Booker T. Washington
“Remember, no one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”
“The question isn’t who is going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me.”
Leaders Leading Leaders
- Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see.
- Success is getting what you want, happiness is wanting what you get.
- Find joy in everything you choose to do. Every job, relationship.. it’s your responsibility to love it, or change it.
- Be like a duck. Calm on the surface, but always paddling like the dickens underneath.
- The right to do something does not mean that doing it is right.
- Too often we enjoy the comfort of opinion without the discomfort of thought.
-John F. Kennedy
For every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness.
-Ralph Waldo Emerson