April 3rd F3QSOURCE Daily Leadership Message Scriptures and Quotes

UNDERSTANDING PEOPLE

The first quality of a relational leader is the ability to understand how people feel and think. As you work with others, recognize that all people, whether leaders or followers, have some things in common:
•They like to feel special, so sincerely compliment them.
•They want a better tomorrow, so show them hope.
• They desire direction, so navigate for them.
• They are selfish, so speak to their needs first.
•They get low emotionally, so encourage them.
• They want success, so help them win.
Recognizing these truths, a leader must still be able to treat people as individuals. The ability to look at each person, understand him, and connect with him is a major factor in relational success. That means treating people differently, not all the same as one another. Marketing expert Rod Nichols notes that in business, this is particularly important: “If you deal with every customer in the same way, you will only close 25 percent to 30 percent of your contacts, because you will only close one personality type. But if you learn how to effectively work with all four personality types, you can conceivably close 100 percent of your contacts.”
This sensitivity can be called the soft factor in leadership. You have to be able to adapt your leadership style to the person you’re leading.

If you always do what you have always done, you will always get what you have always gotten. Strive for something better today.

Don’t promise when you’re happy. Don’t reply when you’re angry. And don’t decide when you’re sad.

When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.

Let your dreams be bigger than your fears and your actions louder than your words.

Daily Scripture

Philippians 4:13

I can do all things through him who strengthens me.

Romans 8:28

And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.

Exodus 23:25

You shall serve the Lord your God, and he will bless your bread and your water, and I will take sickness away from among you.

Daily Quotes

“Know the true value of time; snatch, seize, and enjoy every moment of it.”

— Lord Chesterfield

“Nothing is hopeless that is right.”

–Susan B. Anthony

“We are all ordinary. We are all boring. We are all spectacular. We are all shy. We are all bold. We are all heroes. We are all helpless. It just depends on the day.”

–Brad Meltzer

Daily Storytelling Time

Laughter is The Best Medicine

Many years ago, Norman Cousins was diagnosed as “terminally ill”. He was given six months to live. His chance for recovery was 1 in 500.

He could see the worry, depression and anger in his life contributed to, and perhaps helped cause, his disease. He wondered, “If illness can be caused by negativity, can wellness be created by positivity?”

He decided to make an experiment of himself. Laughter was one of the most positive activities he knew. He rented all the funny movies he could find – Keaton, Chaplin, Fields, the Marx Brothers. (This was before VCRs, so he had to rent the actual films.) He read funny stories. He asked his friends to call him whenever they said, heard or did something funny.

His pain was so great he could not sleep. Laughing for 10 solid minutes, he found, relieved the pain for several hours so he could sleep.

He fully recovered from his illness and lived another 20 happy, healthy and productive years. (His journey is detailed in his book, Anatomy of an Illness.) He credits visualization, the love of his family and friends, and laughter for his recovery.

Some people think laughter is a waste of time. It is a luxury, they say, a frivolity, something to indulge in only every so often.

Nothing could be further from the truth. Laughter is essential to our equilibrium, to our well-being, to our aliveness. If we’re not well, laughter helps us get well; if we are well, laughter helps us stay that way.

Since Cousins’ ground-breaking subjective work, scientific studies have shown that laughter has a curative effect on the body, the mind and the emotions.

So, if you like laughter, consider it sound medical advice to indulge in it as often as you can. If you don’t like laughter, then take your medicine – laugh anyway.

Use whatever makes you laugh – movies, sitcoms, Monty Python, records, books, New Yorker cartoons, jokes, friends.

Give yourself permission to laugh – long and loud and out loud – whenever anything strikes you as funny. The people around you may think you’re strange, but sooner or later they’ll join in even if they don’t know what you’re laughing about.

Some diseases may be contagious, but none is as contagious as the cure. . . laughter.

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